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By Lolly DaskalPresident and CEO, Lead From Within LollyDaskal Getty Images The news of the past year--with near-daily stories of sexual harassment and assault, gender inequality, and other issues affecting women in the workplace--has reinforced the fact that, however far women have come, we still live in a male-dominated world. We see the need for change in countries around the world and in virtually every field and industry.
Good as it is that so many stories validating women's experience are coming to light, that's just the first step. We need to make metoo not just a hashtag but This asian womans wants to know call to action. Working to bring more women into leadership is an important way to advance the cultural change we need.
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Here are some things you can do--right now, where you are--to make it happen: 1. Become a person of value. If you're waiting for someone to recognize the value you bring, you may well be waiting forever. Recognize your own worth.
If you want to work on a project, speak up. If you want to lead a team, say so.
No one will appreciate your contributions until you appreciate them. Work to become known as someone who can be counted on. Let your voice be heard.
Studies show women are much less likely than men to Horny women in Roanoke Virginia up in meetings--and when they do speak up, they apologize repeatedly and allow themselves to be interrupted. If you don't believe you have anything worth saying, how will others have confidence in you?
Recognize the value of your opinion and believe that what you have to share is worth listening to. Speak with confidence. If your communication style seems a bit weak, practice being assertive.
That doesn't mean you have to be rude or hostile.
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Find a sponsor. Look for sponsorship in your workplace by building strong relationships with your boss and other senior leaders. Lead by example.
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If every person became who they wanted to see in the world, their leadership would bridge many chasms and fill in many gaps. There's so much room for individuals to step up and out and show what true effective leadership is--and that happens through leading by example. Attract what you expect, reflect what you desire, become what you respect, and mirror what you admire. It is time for a change, and change will come only when we as women own our own power, Girls who want to get fucked in Beeville, and confidence, knowing that others will follow our lead.
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